Kids and Drugs

The issue of drugs can be a confusing one to your teen. If drugs are so bad, then why do we have a medicine cabinet full of them? TV, movies and advertising can make doing drugs look cool. Studies show that the average age for a child to try alcohol is 11 and marijuana, 12.

There are ways you can help your child through decisions about drugs. Start by talking about it. Be clear without lecturing, as to what your expectations are and what your family position on doing drugs is. Let the know that you are there to answer any questions they may have, no matter how silly they may seem.

Build your child’s self-esteem. Kids who feel good about themselves are much less likely to turn to illegal substances to escape and get high. Offer lots of praise for a job well done, if you need to criticize, talk about the action not about them personally. Spend one-on-one time with your child. Set aside at least 20 minutes of uninterrupted time with your child every day, it’s amazing what they will do or not do when they know you care. Tell your child that you Love them.

Discuss with you child what makes a good friend. Guide them to understand that friends should respect them, should listen to them and should be fun to be around. Friends who pressure them into doing something they know is not right, are not the friends to have.

While kids under 12 rarely develop a substance abuse problem, beware of the signs. If your child becomes withdrawn, loses weight, starts doing poorly in school, turns extremely moody, or has glassy eyes, you need to seek help. Start by talking with your child, then if necessary contact some of the resources listed on this site. You are not alone.