I think that cyber-bullying happens so often because on the computer, you don’t have to face anybody. You can say things that you normally wouldn’t have the courage to say to someone’s face. It can help you stand up to someone that you’re afraid of, but it can also cause problems. Without seeing their face or hearing their voice, it’s hard to tell if someone is telling the truth, kidding or lying.
The people bullying me online were using technology to make the pictures/rumours spread faster and farther. It’s a horrible feeling knowing somebody doesn’t like you enough that they’d make stuff up about you to send to the entire world.
I knew that I needed to do something to stop this but I wasn’t sure what. I learned how to block those people from talking to me online and how to report to a site administrator if there was one. I talked to my teacher at school too about it.
I also thought if it was happening to me, it was probably happening to other kids, so I started a program at my school that educates kids about cyber-bullying. Kids learn about the consequences of bullying and gives them better ways to say what they are feeling. Bullies can talk with people who can help them can find better ways of dealing with stuff, because they are usually angry about a lot of things.
I think that kids need to peel away from the computer and get involved in other activities. Just turn off your computer. Call some friends and go out, and talk in person! Don’t be afraid to speak up – you can make a difference!
